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by Rion Williams If you're single and want to date men, you may be wondering why you can't ever find a great guy or why the ones that do approach 'do everything wrong'. You may also be wondering why so many men are just intimidated by you. I mean, after all you're just a human being and yet all of this male behavior looks really weird to you. Many guys who 'approach' creep you out immediately. I want to give you some insight into male behaviorism so it can help you to have more dating success. Many women are wondering what on earth is wrong with today's men? They seem to have no backbone, lost their confidence and show way too much interest when they first meet a woman. If you're a really 'sexy' woman, then it's even worse. You've seen everything and it's gets really annoying. It is hard to feel attraction for a man in those cases. Maybe you've had to settle for less just to have some sort of dating success. Even though he was still a little nervous, you gave him a chance. Or maybe you've just ended up with jerks who psychologically tormented you. That's not the way either. I teach men how to be natural and comfortable in their own skin in relation to desirable women so that the women can finally open up and things can progress from there. But why are all of these men acting like this? Why are they so nervous to approach you or when they do it's OBVIOUS they're interested in 'one thing'? The male mind is more complex than it looks. Yes, sex is one of primary focuses or desires in life. If you're dressing sexy, you probably know what's going to happen. You're going to attract the 'attention' of men, guaranteed. And then you just have to 'turn down' most of them. So how do you succeed with men? Well, you don't have any problem attracting them but they're almost all doing the wrong things becaus you don't just want sex all of the time and definitely not right up front like all of these guys are behaving. I could say dress less sexier, but so many men still have problems dealing with women. In this area, it really comes down to the men themselves, otherwise you'll just keep looking to find one who 'gets it' who you can trust to be himself who has good attributes instead of damaging ones. So I don't know what else to say as far as that because you are the chooser and you're just waiting for either better options or men who are options but are behaving wrongly to get their act together; I'm working on that! I can teach you more about their behaviorism though so you understand it. It boils down to this; men are conditioned to glorify and edify a woman's 'body' or 'sexuality'. He puts it so far above him on a pedestal due to cultural programming and men's magazines. And then he sees this same behavior in the women around him which he attributes to the fantasy he's been conditioned to 'respond' to. He now acts out of subconscious behavior. His nonverbal body language is saying all the wrong things to you because you have the same 'sexy' attributes as the social alpha models that he has put way above him. None of this is natural, so until more men can see through your very real external behavior and appearance and getting things right themselves to be comfortable around you (which is up to them), there just may be fewer options of healthy men. Help me spread the word! I'm teaching men to be REAL because the path to sex is with you as the woman. But when you find men like that, I recommend that you don't just treat him like the other ones. Not all men have sex on their mind upfront. The one's who get it, know that it may happen in the future but it's really about a woman and what's she's going through.
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