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So what if you were a little needy, dependent, and reliant on your girlfriend or boyfriend. That doesn’t mean that they needed to break up with you. Show them that you’re not so needy and that you are capable of living life without them. Ironically, this will help you get your ex back. Before anything, make sure you can get a hold of yourself… I can’t go over there and start shaking you. Stop crying and stop thinking about your ex. This will not work if you have any doubt in yourself, are insecure, and always thinking about them. Stay positive and do not allow negative thoughts (memories, images of your ex, etc) to enter your head. You’re on a mission here, not only to get your ex back, but to make you into a stronger person. First, get your cell phone out. Write down all the numbers of your ex’s friends from the opposite sex that both of you guys knew. You’re obviously in a lot of distress, so call them and ask them if you can pour out your feelings towards them, since you can’t really pour your feelings towards your ex. Invite them over to your place. The second thing you need to do is talk to them about that happened between you and your girlfriend or boyfriend. Friends “love” hearing gossip and details, so go in-depth and try to add emotional tidbits. For example, start off slow and be nice to them... If they are there with you, they "want" to hear your story. Again, start slow and say something like, “I really did my best to keep this relationship alive but I guess it just didn’t work out…” Then start to add details about them. Tell them how you missed the way their soft hair feels and how they had that cute, quirky smile that always made you laugh. Your tone of voice shouldn’t be depressing or whiny, it should be nostalgic and uplifting. Look in their eyes as you are saying this to them. Spend at least an hour talking to them and make sure you are always raising the bar each time… You want to have as much good rapport with your ex’s friend and make them feel an emotional connection to you by starting from casual conversation, to playful flirting, to deeper, more intimate conversation about what you guys have in common or secret stories that you haven't revealed to anyone. Watch for their signals. If they seem to be responding in an “I don’t mind being taken advantaged” type way, tell them how much they remind you of your ex and start complimenting on their physical and inner qualities. When things start to heat up between you two, tell them that you want to show them something in your room. Take them by the hand and lead them to your bedroom. Continue to develop deep conversation until there is a silent moment where both of you guys are looking at each other. If they don’t look away, slowly graze your fingers on the side of their face, lean in, and gently kiss them on the lips as if it was the most delicate thing on earth. From here, you should have no problem continuing a steamy, sexual adventure and be on the way to getting your ex jealous, creating an emotion that will draw them back to you.
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Tristan Lee is passionate about helping other people get their ex's back. Obviously, these tactics are hurtful, emotionally damaging, and will cause a lot of "drama." If you're looking for a more ethical and positive way to get your ex back that doesn't involve sleeping with another person or getting your ex jealous, visit www.expotions.com!
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