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Ever since middle school, I have had the misfortune of answering desperate pleas from girlfriends that basically go, "how to make my ex boyfriend want me back" or something to that effect. Now if you are the sympathetic soul as I am, you will try to help them "scheme" their way back to their ex's heart - with hopes that this time round, the guy sticks to his guns. It isn't easy... and even some of our foolproof methods prove to be foolhardy in the end. Nonetheless, for the countless other girls who are in the same situation, here are some of our more "award-winning" tips. Tip #1: A trip to the salon is important. Pampering can certainly help boost the ex-girlfriend's ego. However, we have discovered that nothing says, "Your loss, man!" than the recently proclaimed ex girlfriend emerging really great looking after the dump. You don't have to go whole hog and buy yourself a whole new wardrobe (although that would be nice indeed.) A new hair cut, a new set of finger tip polish and some paint is enough to get his attention again. Besides, beautifying yourself after the break up gives off a series of subliminal messages to the guy. One: it's like saying, "Now that you are gone, I can now have anyone I want." Two: "I do not think you deserve this look from me." Three: "You were the one holding this beautiful butterfly back." Some guys find it a bit discomfiting to find their ex-girlfriends looking better than before. If that is not revenge enough, then at least you know for a fact that some of his friends may be looking ... and may become interested since you are now back on the market. This triggers a somewhat primal territorial instinct in the guy. If he's smart, he will seriously start looking in your direction again. If not, maybe a stronger dose of medicine is needed to get through his thick head. Tip #2: Become more active, and not just in the dating scene. Most girls charge through clubs and bars to give off the illusion that they are now free, single and freaking happy. The main goal behind this madness is to attract as many potential admirers... which should make the ex-boyfriend jealous enough to come crawling back. However, in the past few times we tried this scheme; it actually backfired for one reason or the other. For one thing, ex-girlfriend ended up with more trolls calling on her phones than calls from ex-boyfriend. Secondly, being at the club and bars pretending to be happy is like going to the dentist to have your gums sewn shut while continuing to smile. And thirdly, you can't really expect the girls to party all night, all week, all month until the guy comes to his senses (which might take a long time depending on the number of neurons he is working with at the moment.) So we tried a whole new tactic. We involved ex-girlfriend into activities that are meaningful to her. Not only is this quite therapeutic on her behalf, but she also gets to meet guys who are way much better than her ex. Great social activities are also great avenues of "accidentally bumping" into the ex-boyfriend, and showing him exactly what he is missing. I hope these tips have helped given you some ideas on how you can make your ex boyfriend want you back again.
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