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by Maureen Arnold Meeting women online sounds easy enough to most men, you see a profile, email the woman and BAM! You're in! So you go to an online dating site, set yourself up a profile, bang out a few emails to a couple sweet babes you see in the profiles, and sit back and wait for the emails to start flowing in. You wait few minutes, and nothing happens. A few hours, ands till nothing. Oh, then tomorrow you may get the email from the "stranded girl in Nigeria who desperately needs YOUR help to get out of the hotel because they won’t let her go unless she gets $500"…. You get the picture, right? It's not as simple as it looks to get a response from an email in an online dating environment. Why is this? First- email is not a communication medium that allows for a lot of expression. You need to have the ability to dial up attraction using black and white text and a few words - and I am betting you do not know how to do that. Second - these women are getting a LOT of emails, especially if they are hot. What about your email will make her respond to you? Number three - your email got buried in the pile under the last 100 that came in and she has not even gotten to it yet because you don’t know when to send the email. So what is a guy to do to up the odds? First of all, let's discuss WHEN you are sending your emails to these single women. The timing of your email DOES matter. The best time to send an email to a woman is on a Sunday, typically between 10:00 am and 2:00 pm. Why? Well, let's think about it…she went out on either Friday or Saturday night… maybe both. And chances are, she is either feeling discouraged because she met a bunch of wussy guys she wasn’t interested in… or feeling depressed because guys weren’t hitting on her at all. And WHY did she join the online dating site? To MEET A MAN! And when she logs on to her computer on Sunday, she’s hoping to make up for her weekend by meeting a guy she actually likes and who is not a total wussbag like the ones she met at the bar who were slobbering all over her. And that, my friend, is where you come in. You will have your nice little attractive attention getting email waiting for her when she pops online and (fanfare please) it has begun! Remember, too, to get her phone number FAST - and take this from the virtual world to the real world as fast as you can. Virtual relationships are fun for a few days, but then you have to meet her to keep her interest and to avoid her making her mental picture of you too far fetched for you to ever fit (and vise-versa). Ok, so you know WHEN to send the email, but what about what you PUT in the email? The content of your email is VITAL. Your goal in your email to the woman you want to date is to get her ATTENTION and spark ATTRACTION. You are not writing to her to sell yourself, to tell her how good you are, how perfect you are for her, how you match her profile or anything else. Grab her attention and let her come to YOU with the questions and the "pick me" attitude. Here are two short and sweet examples of what I am talking about: Hi! How are you? My name is Jim Jones and I thought your profile was great! I would like to get to know you better, so feel free to say hello. You have a great smile, too! Or this: Hey! Come and chat…It's as simple as that. You caught my attention. Most people on here come across as totally self-obsessed…you seem a little different…;) Another key to getting a woman's attention is to be the first to get to her! Stay current on the additions to your chosen dating site, and as soon as you see a woman's profile pop on there, email her and start the process. Do not fall prey to attempting to respond to her profile in a way that demonstrates that YOU have what she is looking for, either. Women typically write sappy profiles about how they are looking for someone to "connect with on a deep level, take romantics walks with, fill that void in their life" etc. BUT - if you respond to her in that same sappy, drippy tone - you are NOT going to attract her. You, as a man, need to maintain the Cocky/Funny attitude of the alpha male in order to spark and then maintain attraction.
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