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by Rion Williams The behavior of these women IS real. You just have to know your relationship to it and where YOU stand so that you can be yourself without getting used or manipulated. Then you can instead have win/win relationships with women under the type of relationship that you choose. It's important that you maintain the relational authority and lead of the relationship as a man. If you don't choose what type of relationship it's going to be, the woman will have to choose it for you. At that point, all hell can break loose and you may find yourself losing control. For many men living in California who can't see the signs, they end up getting married, divorced and used for their money. This behavior of women is purely social but it's still up to you to know what it is, see the signs and lay down the law that it's not going to happen or limit the type of relationship before it would ever happen. In other words, keep money out of it and have a pre-nup. Focus on the more important things and qualify your women on that. There was an early Cary Grant movie where he was a rich, well-to-do guy and found this woman but pretended he was poor. She made the right choice and chose him and found out at the wedding that he was rich. The movie 'Intolerable Cruelty' epitomizes the whole California divorce scene of mercenary women. The world would be at an end if all women behaved 'socially' like that. Unfortunately millions of them are and will get away with it if the man doesn't realize what's going on and put his foot down. Ok, well what about more 'normal' (good-looking) women? If you ask men around the world what they've noticed about American women you'll hear all kinds of things. Those men can more clearly differentiate what's going on because they can see it objectively rather than subjectively. That's to their own benefit. Many of our men have been divorced while they were just being themselves the whole time and couldn't figure out the behavior of their wife. Maybe you've seen the movie 'Stepford Wives'. This is the movie I watched the night the lightning bolt of realization finally hit me and culminated everything together. I've wrote about this before but I encourage you to see that movie. See how they portray traditional women as those who were blatantly stupid, robotic and subservient to their wussy husband's desires. You have to be careful of the message behind all of the programming you are receiving. The reason female behavior changed in the first place is because of the causal programming and environmental upbringing they received. That is why American women are vastly different than other women from around the world. I've even found our women trying to 'encourage' other more natural women to 'develop' and 'evolve'. For better or worse what happens? Why do you think we have a 50% divorce rate now? Few are willing to admit it. We're talking about a role reversal here. Society is now not only promoting women to be more like men but men to be more like women. Everything is screwed up in an ever (socially) evolving culture where we continually get away from our natural roots and that which supports life itself. Nature is what got us here, not prickteasing, not sexploitation, not nagging. We've come along and messed with the design of nature. women naturally have all the right things to make a family and relationship work and they still do in most of the world except in the 'developed' areas. What is sad is that our 'developed' women want other women to take on these socio-cultural attributes that they think are proper for all women. Thank God most of Asia still has it straight. Not only do their men not HAVE to put their women in place, their women instinctively know their role so that the relationship can focus on abundance and bliss instead of challenge, power struggles and logical confrontations. So it's up to you to understand what the behavior of women is and what it means to you in different types of relationships. It will save you a lot of drama, turmoil and money. Most of the world is beginning to realize that 'independent' women are a disaster in waiting for a long-term relationship or marriage. Know the signs and know what types of relationships you want to have. If you choose an independent woman it boils down to this in your commitment; compromise and communication.
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