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If you're wondering "how can I make my ex girlfriend want me back", and everything you have tried so far has not worked for you. Here is a trick that will help her want you back again. This trick might go against everything you thought would work in getting your ex girlfriend back. But really, as simple as this might be, most men screw it up because it is so counter-intuitive. How can you make her to want you back? All you need to know do is to "reject her". Mind bogglingly simple right? Concept is otherwise hard to grasp. What happens when a girl rejects you and says "it's just not working out" or something along those lines? It means she doesn't want you anymore and for you to leave her alone right? Being rejected hurts and no one wants to be rejected. Therefore that means if you reject her (after she has rejected you), technically she shouldn't care and you both "should" get on with your life but in different directions. Wrong! Humans are much too complicated for anything that clear cut to happen. Of course there are cases where that has happened (as there are exceptions to every rule). But the truth is NO ONE likes to be rejected. Even if she has rejected you (as much as I hate using that word over and over again), she doesn't want to be rejected herself. Now she might act as if she doesn't care (basically doing what you're doing), but this won't last long if she cares for you AT ALL. If after you reject her and you don't hear from her for 6 months! Or something ridiculous like that (which believe me, that WON'T happen), then you know it's over and she didn't care about you that much to begin with. However, if she ever cared or loved you at all, she won't be able to stand the idea of you rejecting her. (Rejecting her = no contact or interest in contacting her). She'll want to know, as we all would, why you're behaving the way you are. She'll want to be validated that she is still desired, because if she isn't, then what she thought of the relationship wasn't really want she thought at all! This last statement will scare her! Scaring her will enable her to act and that means she'll come chasing after you. If it's so simple why doesn't everyone do this? Because most guys can't stick with it but oftentimes lots of other variables come into play. Eg. when the opportunity to reunite arises, the guy is usually too stubborn to see it. Word of warning why this won't work: * If you go overboard with the rejection and act as if you're doing it just for revenge. * If you are dishonest with her (and yourself) and treat her poorly just to have the upperhand. * Deliberately ignore her, especially when she most needs you. * Put too much emphasis on this strategy instead of working on yourself and why the relationship ended in the first place. Remember this might get her back in the short-term but if you're not willing to work on staying together, then it's all quite meaningless.
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