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  • Why Do Women Cheat? – The Women Speak
    Recently I requested responses from my newsletter list from women who have had the experience of cheating on their partner. These responses were very enlightening!
  • Relationships: Give Attention! To Your Honey
    Couples need to give each other a lot of attention to keep their relationship healthy. But everything around us seems to pull our attention away from our partner. What is left over for our mate by the end of the day may be very, very little. Here are some points for ensuring that we put the time and attention where it is needed.
  • Is Your Relationship Getting What's MOST Important?
    What do you most want in life? Do you think you know?
    If we really get down to it most of us want some kind of joy, fulfillment and
    security. And, as couples, we get bogged down in the details of trying to
    achieve these "states of being."
  • Can Your Honey Be Your Business Partner?
    Many couples first met on the job, are involved in family businesses, or find themselves considering working together on something they both love. One of the basics behind success in such ventures is whether they can make it past the hurdle of competing with each other.
  • Relationship Advice: When Is Violence Not Only Appropriate, But Necessary?
    Yup. That title is one of those trick questions. The answer is NEVER. Violence is NEVER appropriate, and NEVER necessary.
  • Relationship Advice - What If You Live With A Depressed Partner?
    Depression, mild or severe, can impact a relationship with negativity, isolating tendencies, and critical irritation. But solutions are available. Help is ready!
  • Why Do Women Cheat? - An Update
    I've received some relevant critique to my original article, "Why Do Women Cheat?" This critique falls into two categories: men's experience with a single woman cheating with many others, or men's experience with a number of relationships where it seems the women always cheat on them.
  • Relationship Advice - Our Dog Died Today: Grief Together
    The death of our dog gives opportunity to remember the lessons learned about couples grieving together.
  • Relationship Advice: Scratch An Adult, and You'll Find a Scared Child Underneath
    People over react in relationships because of stress. Maturity in a relationship is recognizing this pattern, and getting out of it faster and faster each time. A couple can learn to recognize these factors in themselves and in partners and lesson the reaction.
  • YOU Can Earn Massive Returns on Your Relationship Investment!
    I see so many people taking their relationships for granted, investing little or nothing in them, and then being surprised when they get a dismal return. But, it really doesn't take all that much effort to make them much better, with just a little more effort to make them much, much better.
  • Relationship Advice: When To Pull The Plug
    When a relationship is cooling off or ending it is natural to try to save it. Here's some ideas on whether to let it go or keep working on it.
  • Relationship Advice: How To Recover From An Affair
    For the couple that wants to put their relationship back together after an affair there is the long grief period for the person betrayed and the role of repentence for the person who had the affair.
  • Relationship Advice: 9 Reasons to Make Your Relationship Great Right Now!
    9 Reasons to motivate couples to work on their relationship now while the opportunity still exists
  • Relationship Advice: "I've met Mr. Right. Do You Think He's the One?"
    How do we make a good assessment about who is the right partner for us? Here are questions about behavior, love, and final blocks about such relationships.
  • Why Do Women Cheat?
    Women can be unfaithful in relationships due to the pain of loneliness, revenge because of betrayal of a partner cheating, or seeking attention and admiration due to poor self-esteem. These reasons do not justify the behavior but help us to understand it and find solutions.
  • Why Do Men Cheat?
    Men have affairs for a variety of reasons, including: genetics, competition, self-esteem, and boredom with their partner. While none of these justify the cheating, understanding them moves us closer to a solution.
  • You Are The Problem!
    Accepting in relationships that we are the problem gives us the possibility of becoming the solution. Making choices for self care regardless of a partner's reactions can actually lead to a better relationship.
  • The Ultimate Aphrodisiac: Emotional Intimacy!
    Men and women need to realize that a man's ability to sexually respond due to hormones decreases with age. The natural way to fill the gap and "prime the sexual pump" is emotional intimacy. Women are critical in helping men make this transition.
  • How NOT to fix Your Wife (Girlfriend or Date)!
    Many men try to solve women's problems when all the women want or need is to be listened to. Here's how my wife effectively trained me to listen to her.

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